What if I do not find anyone I like? What to expect and what your options are

01What to expect from an introduction service

Finding someone you like depends on many things no service controls: your tastes, the other person’s, the timing for both and the chemistry that appears or does not when you meet. An introduction service can make the meeting easier, protect privacy and verify identities, but it cannot create affinity.

That is why we do not promise results, a number of profiles or response times. If a service assures you a partner, a number of introductions or a date, it is wise to doubt; we say more about spotting such promises in is a private matchmaking service safe?.

What we do offer is access to a private catalog of adult women’s profiles in Mexico City, Monterrey and Guadalajara, and personal attention from a person on the team. From there, the decision of whom to meet is yours, and the decision to accept an introduction is hers.

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An introduction service offers access, attention and care. It cannot offer chemistry between two people.

02What you can do before paying

There is no free trial and no open access to the catalog without an account. But there are several ways to inform yourself before committing money, from least to most commitment:

• Message us on WhatsApp (free). A person on the team explains how it works and what kind of profiles exist in your city, with no commitment. You can do it from the home page.
• Leave your search in the form (free). In “tell us what you are looking for” you give your city, an age range and a note; you confirm your email and we let you know if a matching profile is published. After you send it we recommend the membership, but it is not required to submit the request.
• Create your account (free). We ask for name, email, phone and password; no ID is asked for. With the account you can move on to the preview or the membership when you decide.
• Buy the preview ($200 MXN). For 14 days, in read-only mode, you see a sample of up to 12 profiles of women who agreed to appear there: main photo, first name, age, city and availability. It does not include a description, more photos, videos, contact details or the interest button. Only one preview can be bought per account.

If the preview convinces you, the payment is credited to the membership as long as you activate it within 30 days; you would pay the difference.

03What the membership includes and what a connection is

The membership is a one-time payment of $1,000 MXN. It is not a subscription and there are no automatic charges. This is what it includes:

• Access to the reserved catalog, with profiles in three cities.
• One connection included, with the profile you choose. A second connection costs $200 MXN.
• Marking “I’m interested” costs nothing.
• Verification of your identity, once, before your first interest or connection. Creating the account and paying do not ask for it.

The membership gives access to the catalog, never to a meeting: nobody pays for a date, and whether a woman accepts an introduction is her decision. To understand the whole process, see how a private matchmaking service works, and for the cost detail, how much a private matchmaking service costs.

04How to decide calmly

If you are hesitating, it is not a bad sign: it means you are taking seriously a decision that deserves it. These questions may help:

• What do I really want? A relationship, company for dinner, meeting someone with a similar purpose. The clearer you are, the better you will know whether a private catalog suits you.
• Does verification bother me? If you are not willing to verify your identity once, this format is probably not for you, and that is fine.
• How much can I commit without pressure? Decide first how much you are willing to pay for the membership, and if you would rather see a sample first, the preview exists for that.
• What do I still need to know? Write it down and ask on WhatsApp before paying; it is the fastest way to decide with the full picture.

And one simple rule: do not pay if you have unresolved doubts, and do not decide because anyone is rushing you.

05Ask about the conditions before you pay

Before paying anything, ask on WhatsApp about the service conditions and what each payment includes. It is a reasonable question and worth asking of any service, not only ours. Message us from the home page.

Prices, deadlines and conditions can change; always confirm with us through an official channel before paying. If you want more on the options before the membership, read how to see profiles before you sign up.